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Outside Reminders

​I get reminded on almost a daily basis how incredibly blessed I am. Whenever I am down and out or when I think that I am not good enough, I get a sign that I am on the path I'm supposed to be on. Sometimes I feel that I should be farther along financially, spiritually or professionally and I get a sign that makes me even more thankful for what I do have. Sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough at being a wife and mother and then my family shows me that I am exactly what they need. Sometimes professionally I think that I'm not a good teacher or counselor and then I get a text message telling me how much I inspired a young person to do the right thing. I beat myself up a lot or at least I used to, but there are pieces of motivation and inspiration out in the world that come back to you at the exact moment you need it. I'm good at telling people they are good enough, that they can do anything they put their minds to, but I often need my own reminder. So every day I work on reminding myself that I am worthy. I am good enough. I can achieve anything that I put my mind to. Along with my own reminders the motivation that comes from outside continues to uplift me. 

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