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Self care for educators during a pandemic and racial unrest

While we are fighting the good fight, protesting injustices, demanding equality and the right to live while also attempting to protect ourselves in the midst of a global pandemic we have to remember to care for ourselves. As educators we not only have ourselves to consider but we encounter hundreds of personalities daily. Students, colleagues, administrators, parents. We engage at a high level every single day for hours on end. The relationships that we create while teaching are meaningful ones therefore we can be overcome with feelings of helplessness especially in an uncertain time like this.  Since forever school has been a constant. The academic calendar has been second nature in our society. September to June 8am - 3pm. Clockwork. For students, parents and educators alike. The shutdown has upended our sense of normalcy on a scale that is unprecedented.  Feeling the loss of milestones like graduation, prom, end of year trips, school traditions  Being empat...

No Charges? it's cool. You know why??

You know what that Breonna Taylor verdict verified? Is that we have to do for ourselves. We have to matter for ourselves. We have to protect ourselves. Whatever that means for you and yours. For me it means that I have to continue to push mine. My girls have to reach their goals. I have to continue to show up for my students. They need to see my black woman face running stuff behind the scenes. My husband needs me to encourage from behind. My daughters need to be pushed to reach for their greatness. I need to show up for myself. I have goals and dreams I still need to reach and I have to achieve them. I have to show up for myself. No one is coming to save us. They don't even care about us. But we got us. I'll make sure of it. 

His Wife

No pen to paper but getting my thoughts out. I love my husband. We've been working hard to make it work and it shows. I appreciate him. B ecoming a wife has taught me a new level of patience. To take someone else into consideration. I am not always right. It is not always one way to doing things. You can show love differently. You have to be willing to listen without a response ready and you have to be willing to try. Try hard all the time. I loved my husband but was selfish and unkind. I thought I knew everything. I thought I had to be right all the time and have all the answers. Marriage is hard because it is work. He taught me that I do love and can love in a way that is unselfish. I don't have to be in control of everything. And that is ok. Every day I wake up feeling like I need him more and more by my side. I admire the man he is. The father he is. The husband he is. The protector. He helps me continuously believe in myself and my abilities and I am thankful for that. In ...