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Because I Am Who I Am

"Who does she think she is?"
"What gives her the right...?"
"Why do they listen to her?"
"Why her and not me?"
"Where does she think she is"
"Who's boss is she?"
"She's not even their mom.."
"Why, why, why"

All the chatter behind my back I hear, loudly and you know what I've questioned myself too. I've asked "why me?" In all aspects of my life. My marriage, being the mother I am to my 3 girls, my job as a College Advisor/school whatever I am, my businesses, my house, my life overall the way I interact with the world.

What makes me different? I show up. Everyday and DO THE WORK. I care. I care about people. I see a need and do what needs to be done. I don't talk shit and sit back and do nothing. I see what needs to be done and try my best to come up with solutions. I'm not always nice about it. I'm not always cheerful. Hell I'm not always healthy but I show up for people continuously. That is more than I can say for alot of people.

So with that the next time someone asks you about me and why I do whatever I do please tell them because I can and will continue to. People need people to get up, show up and do something. That is me. Period.

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